Definition of Love: Undefined and Limitless
What is love and why do we need it? Isn't that a question we all ask our selves from time to time? I know I sure do. Love is not something easily understood or easily accomplished, which is why it's the most valuable aspect in life it’s self. One day we may understand what love may consist of but something we must all remember is, it's never the same. You can't compare one love to another’s love, everyone understands it differently, everybody values it on their own level, and every one has their own appreciation for it.
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One thing I came to realize is you will love through out your life but when that one true love comes knocking at your door, it will hold the bar for the rest of your life! And if you're like me, and you lose that one true love for whatever reason that may be, do not go comparing everyone to that one true love, you will only end up hurting yourself. Instead find someone who can make you just as happy being who they are, and being exactly who you were born to be. Don't let anyone change you unless you they are willing to change for you.
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Live, Love, Lose, and Let go. You never want to find someone just like your ex for two reasons: 1. you aren't together for a reason 2. Would you want to be reminded of what once was, every single time you look into their eyes? It would hurt; well at least it hurt me. I tried to find someone just like my one true love and every time I'd find similarities I would begin to resent the person, I'd cry myself to sleep knowing the one I had, Is the one I need and the one I have isn't the one I want. I'd end up hurting him and hurting myself because it was all a lie. The only way I'll be happy is by starting over and finding someone who is their own person.
(Not saying there can't be similarities, just don't go out of your way to match your ex's characteristics)
(Not saying there can't be similarities, just don't go out of your way to match your ex's characteristics)
With that being said don't try and be like the other person's ex. We've all been there done that, heard that he/she did this or he/she did that and we get this idea that we need to be like that person or better yet top that. Don't ever try and be someone you're not because you'll never be able to live with a stranger the rest of your life. My grandpa always told me to never blend in, never compare yourself to the rest of the world, and only compare yourself to who you want to be.
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Everyone has their own idea of what love is or what love can be.
My idea of love is finding someone who you respect and who respects you;
Someone who makes you want to be a better person and visa versa;
Someone who can provide you with a series of happy moments to offset those that aren't.
Love is unique, find what makes you tick and you'll find what makes you tock.
~S.Rae~
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