Wednesday, November 6, 2013

What makes people desperate?

Why do girls feel the need to have sex with a guy they hardly know?
I am sure there are reasons for everything, and not all are alike.

Some girls feel that if they have sex with a guy, that the guy will like them more.  Here's the thing.  They may like you more for sex, but not necessarily like you for you.  They'll think of you as someone they can use as a "booty call," and basically is similar to being their slave.  Once you have made the mistake of doing this, (and in most cases) it will be difficult for them to look at you differently.
If you wanted a relationship with this guy, then you probably shouldn't consider basing the relationship on sex.  If you take sex out of the picture, and he doesn't like you for you, then you are better off letting it be, and moving on.  No one should be worth your time if they aren't willing to be with you without the sex.  Now, I am not saying to take sex out of your relationship.  Sex is a great thing between couples, for many reasons ***
A strong and healthy relationship can be one of the best supports in your life. Strong relationships improve all aspects of your life such as: strengthening your health, your mind, and also your connections with others. However, if the relationship is not working, it can also be exhausting. Relationships are an investment. The more you put in, the more you can get back. These tips can help keep a healthy relationship strong, or repair trust and love in a relationship on the rocks.  Like my mother always said "Treat others how you would want to be treated." This goes for both friendships and relationships { both family and personal }

What makes guys desperate ?
But you can't base your relationship on it.  The most important things are that you two can be happy together with or without it.