tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-45351371195318674452024-03-12T16:31:26.188-07:00Life&Love Made SimpleAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01051326178199659963noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4535137119531867445.post-57949512871476315162013-11-06T08:53:00.000-08:002013-11-06T08:53:00.466-08:00What makes people desperate?<div style="text-align: center;">
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">Why do girls feel the need to have sex with a guy they hardly know?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">Some girls feel that if they have sex with a guy, that the guy will like them more. Here's the thing. They may like you more for sex, but not necessarily like you for you. They'll think of you as someone they can use as a "booty call," and basically is similar to being their slave. Once you have made the mistake of doing this, (and in most cases) it will be difficult for them to look at you differently. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: x-small;">If you wanted a relationship with this guy, then you probably shouldn't consider basing the relationship on sex. If you take sex out of the picture, and he doesn't like you for you, then you are better off letting it be, and moving on. No one should be worth your time if they aren't willing to be with you without the sex. Now, I am not saying to take sex out of your relationship. Sex is a great thing between couples, for many reasons ***</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">A strong and healthy relations</span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">hip can be one of the best supports in your life. Strong relationships improve all aspects of your life such as: strengthening your health, your mind, and also your connections with others. However, if the relationship is not working, it can also be exhausting. Relationships are an investment. The more you put in, the more you can get back. These tips can help keep a healthy relationship strong, or repair trust and love in a relationship on the rocks. Like my mother always said "Treat others how you would want to be treated." This goes for both friendships and relationships { both family and personal }</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">But you can't base your relationship on it. The most important things are that you two can be happy together with or without it. </span></div>
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<b>Breakups...</b> <u>No one</u> likes the sound of it. <u>No one</u> likes the meaning of it. It simply.. sucks. You could have gone through a bad breakup, or ended on good terms, but either way... getting over it is a challenge. You may often ask yourself questions such as : Why is it so hard to get over someone, even if they've been treating you poorly? or Why can't I move on? </div>
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I don't have all the answers in the world, I just have honest answers from personal experience. If you are or have been going through a <b>tough breakup</b> because of anger, or something that you may claim as "your fault," it may seem easy at 1st. The reasoning for that is because you're in your anger phase. But the next couple of days seem to get more difficult and you realize you miss the other person. For one, you were in the habit of being with someone, you were in your comfort zone.</div>
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Honestly, the only way to get through it is with time. I know that's not an answer people want to hear, because as humans we are all { <i><span style="font-size: large;">impatient</span> }</i>. We want things done <b>now.</b> ..Now whether the breakup was your fault or not, <u>it happened</u>. It sucks. You can't take it back, and need to move on with your life and move forward. </div>
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Some ways of getting your mind off it: pick up extra hours at your job (if he doesn't work with you) , keep yourself busy. Listen to music, workout, spend more time with family. Plan events.. go on a mini vacation. Try painting or drawing. Whatever you do, Do not sleep with anyone. You are already in a rough patch and you don't need to be taken advantage of. Don't complicate things more than they already are.. <u>especially now</u>. You need to stop feeling sorry for yourself, and stop blaming yourself. </div>
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Do your nails, get your hair done, buy a new outfit. Make yourself feel confident again. You want to look your best, don't let yourself go because of someone else.. You want to better yourself. Take the breakup as a positive thing, as a new and better chapter in your life. You don't need them. The world is big enough to move on to bigger and better things. Put a huge smile on your face when you go out, don't let others have to suffer because of your unhappiness. Even if you have to fake it, do it. Afterall, a happy you is a better you. It will make you glow and nothing negative can occur when you are happy and positive. & it will make them wonder why you are so happy and they are so miserable. Trust me on this one.. They WILL miss you, whether they want to admit it or not.. They will hide the fact that they miss you, but they will. Now. This<u> does not mean</u> they want you back. You may never get them back. But that is a Good Thing. You are already on your way to a new chapter in your life. A better beginning. Don't think of it as an end, although it feels like the world is ending. </div>
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Take your mind off it by trying new things. If you do the same things you always do , you already feel comfortable doing them so it won't completely get your mind off it. Try NEW things. Such as Painting, Drawing, Bowling, go for a walk, be daring try skydiving, go ice skating or roller blading, learn photoshop, try dancing(ie: ballroom, salsa, zumba, line-dancing). Look up at your local community center for lessons. Try crafting. Scrapbooking, or card-making. You can find a new love of crafting you didn't even know you were into. Try cooking, or baking something new.</div>
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No one said a breakup is going to be easy, and I am not saying it is. But I have been through it, and most people I know have been through tough situations. and you know what? <span style="background-color: #990000; color: white;">We have all been able to get through it </span>, and it <b>does</b> get better. It may not feel as if it's getting better now, or that it will. But trust me, it does. As long as you want it to get better, and get that negative energy out of your body. </div>
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And most importantly, you need to learn to love and trust yourself before you love and trust others. <3</div>
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<i>We are here to help you</i>, to discuss and get through tough situations, or just give advice. We understand that It's difficult to ask questions face to face, and we will never ask for your name or personal information. It's a tough world out there, but know that you are not alone. <3<br />
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-all the information on this post is based on personal opinion. <a href="http://www.helpguide.org/mental/coping_divorce_relationship_breakup.htm" target="_blank">Here</a> is an additional site I found to be helpful to cope with a breakup or divorce. </div>
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";"> One thing I came to realize is you will love through out your life but when that one true love comes knocking at your door, it will hold the bar for the rest of your life! And if you're like me, and you lose that one true love for whatever reason that may be,</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";"> </span><span style="color: red; font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";">do not go comparing everyone to that one true love,</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";"> </span><span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";">you will only end up hurting yourself. Instead find someone who can make you just as happy being who they are, and being exactly who you were born to be. Don't let anyone change you unless you they are willing to change for you.</span><span style="font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";"></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";"> </span><span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";"> </span><span style="color: red; font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";">Live, Love, Lose, and Let go.</span><span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";"> </span><span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";">You never want to find someone just like your ex for two reasons: 1. you aren't together for a reason 2. Would you want to be reminded of what once was, every single time you look into their eyes? It would hurt; well at least it hurt me. I tried to find someone just like my one true love and every time I'd find similarities I would begin to resent the person, I'd cry myself to sleep knowing the one I had, Is the one I need and the one I have isn't the one I want. I'd end up hurting him and hurting myself because it was all a lie. The only way I'll be happy is by starting over and finding someone who is their own person. </span><span style="font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";"></span><br />
<span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";">(Not saying there can't be similarities, just don't go out of your way to match your ex's characteristics)</span></div>
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";">With that being said don't try and be like the other person's ex. We've all been there done that, heard that he/she did this or he/she did that and we get this idea that we need to be like that person or better yet top that. Don't ever try and be someone you're not because you'll never be able to live with a stranger the rest of your life. My grandpa always told me to never blend in,</span><span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";"> </span><span style="color: red; font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";">never compare yourself to the rest of the world, and only compare yourself to who you want to be.</span><span style="font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";"></span></div>
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<span style="color: red; font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";">Everyone has their own idea of what love is or what love can be.</span><span style="font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";"></span></div>
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";"> My idea of love is finding someone who you respect and who respects you;</span><span style="font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";"></span></div>
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";"> Someone who makes you want to be a better person and visa versa; </span><span style="font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";"></span></div>
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";">Someone who can provide you with a series of happy moments to offset those that aren't. </span><span style="font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";"></span></div>
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<span style="color: red; font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";"> Love is unique, find what makes you tick and you'll find what makes you tock</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";">. </span><span style="font-family: "Imprint MT Shadow";"></span></div>
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